{"id":1609,"date":"2025-10-19T09:22:48","date_gmt":"2025-10-19T08:22:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?p=1609"},"modified":"2025-10-19T09:22:48","modified_gmt":"2025-10-19T08:22:48","slug":"this-years-tes-send-show-and-our-much-needed-night-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?p=1609","title":{"rendered":"This years tes SEND show and our much needed night  away."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.49.04-AM.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1610\" width=\"582\" height=\"734\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.49.04-AM.png 449w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.49.04-AM-238x300.png 238w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 582px) 100vw, 582px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ian and I have never made a secret of the fact that being parent carers is tough at times. Don&#8217;t get us wrong, we ADORE our children and know how lucky we are to have them, but it&#8217;s not easy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Firstly, the whole &#8220;18 summers&#8221; thing is not our reality.  Archie will need our full care for his whole life and that can occasionally terrify us (although we also love that he&#8217;ll never leave home \ud83d\ude09  ).  Occasionally, people will say things like &#8220;you dont know that&#8221; to which we reply &#8220;we do!&#8221;.  That&#8217;s because we have fully accepted.  We have traveled through all the emotional phases of acceptance, denial being the first one for us and we now see our role. A role that we are truthfully proud to play!  However, we do still need the odd &#8220;Beckie and Ian time&#8221; and last weekend was just that.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"770\" height=\"529\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.50.56-AM.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1611\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.50.56-AM.png 770w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.50.56-AM-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.50.56-AM-768x528.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This weekend, Ian and I slipped away for a much-needed break in London: a blend of work, fun, and proper \u201cus\u201d time.  We headed into the city for the tes SEND Show (and yes \u2013 we balanced the \u201ceducational\/professional\u201d bit with the \u201chave fun as a couple\u201d bit).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4>The tes SEND show 2025 &#8211; In LBDC<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The tes SEND Show is one of the UK\u2019s leading events for special educational needs and disability (SEND) \u2014 bringing together educators, parents, carers, practitioners, and suppliers to connect, learn and explore inclusive practice.  It is my work version of Disneyland&#8230; I LOVE IT!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>It was held at the Business Design Centre in London and offered a rich programme: CPD-certified seminars, a \u201cParent, Carer &amp; Teacher Forum\u201d, and over 150 exhibitors showcasing resources, technologies and services aimed at supporting children &amp; young people with SEN.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>For us, it was the perfect mix of being professionally curious and personally connected: we  wandered the exhibitor stands, chatted with folks and grabbed ideas. We caught up with friends we have made over the years of attendance, like the brilliant Dale Pickles, made new connections but left enough enegry for us to just be us!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"400\" height=\"572\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.55.16-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1612\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.55.16-AM.png\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1612\" class=\"wp-image-1612\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.55.16-AM.png 400w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.55.16-AM-210x300.png 210w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" 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357px) 100vw, 357px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"770\" height=\"529\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.13-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1617\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.13-AM.png\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1617\" class=\"wp-image-1617\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.13-AM.png 770w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.13-AM-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.13-AM-768x528.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"770\" height=\"529\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.00-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1618\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.00-AM.png\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1618\" class=\"wp-image-1618\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.00-AM.png 770w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.00-AM-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.53.00-AM-768x528.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4>London  \u2013 Just Us<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>After the show, we carved out some <em>proper<\/em> couple time.  Now dont worry, we havent gone all mushy \ud83d\ude09  We had a lovely stroll, did some sightseeing and a little bit of indulgence \u2014 and it felt so good to shift from carer mode into \u201cIan &amp; Beckie\u201d mode. It was nice to remeber all the fun things I like about my husband, it&#8217;s sometimes all too easy to forget when you are both run off your feet in the day to day!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container\">\n<p>First stop, the iconic Harrods for a browse (and maybe a little treat \ud83d\ude09 ). The grandeur of the building, the little hushed luxury corners, the food hall \u2014 all of it felt new and fun. I even got a moment on the catwalk&#8230; never thought that would happen!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"433\" height=\"572\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.00.36-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1619\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.00.36-AM.png\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1619\" class=\"wp-image-1619\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.00.36-AM.png 433w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.00.36-AM-227x300.png 227w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 433px) 100vw, 433px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"400\" height=\"572\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.30-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1620\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.30-AM.png\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1620\" class=\"wp-image-1620\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.30-AM.png 400w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.30-AM-210x300.png 210w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"400\" height=\"572\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.18-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1621\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.18-AM.png\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1621\" class=\"wp-image-1621\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.18-AM.png 400w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-9.58.18-AM-210x300.png 210w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We also visited the quirky and immersive Paradox Museum London: full of illusions, fun photo opportunities and just a bit silly and carefree \u2014 the perfect contrast to our professional start to the day. Interestingly though, the photo&#8217;s we took look like they are going to be used for my newest venture <a href=\"http:\/\/www.neurocreativemedia.co.uk\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"www.neurocreativemedia.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">www.neurocreativemedia.co.uk<\/a>. The fun, brightly coloured and often confusing nature of the museum seems to fit so well with me personally so, that worked out well!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"389\" height=\"526\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.04.24-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1622\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1622\" class=\"wp-image-1622\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.04.24-AM.png 389w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.04.24-AM-222x300.png 222w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 389px) 100vw, 389px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"389\" height=\"526\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.04.10-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1623\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1623\" class=\"wp-image-1623\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.04.10-AM.png 389w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.04.10-AM-222x300.png 222w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 389px) 100vw, 389px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"389\" height=\"526\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.58-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1624\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1624\" class=\"wp-image-1624\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.58-AM.png 389w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.58-AM-222x300.png 222w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 389px) 100vw, 389px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"433\" height=\"572\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.08-AM.png\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1626\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/?attachment_id=1626\" class=\"wp-image-1626\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.08-AM.png 433w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.08-AM-227x300.png 227w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 433px) 100vw, 433px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.28-AM-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1629\" width=\"676\" height=\"622\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.28-AM-1.png 572w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.03.28-AM-1-300x276.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 676px) 100vw, 676px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We then spent time just wandering London \u2014 coffee stops, people-watching, talking about everything <em>except<\/em> \u201cwhat needs doing\u201d or \u201cwork we have to catch up with back home\u201d.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It was a reminder that these rare breaks really matter.  Because, being a parent carer is wonderful, but it\u2019s also constant&#8230; and having a moment where we <em>don\u2019t<\/em> have to think primarily about caring, logistics, managing things for someone else \u2014 really gives you a reset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re a carer (especially a parent carer) you\u2019re always \u201con\u201d.  You\u2019re endlessly managing the needs of someone else, balancing work, support, home life, and more.  It\u2019s meaningful work, wonderful work\u2014 but exhausting, and the value of stepping away is huge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It gives <strong>perspective<\/strong>: you realise that you <em>are<\/em> allowed to be Ian &amp; Beckie too \u2014 not just \u201ccarer\u201d or \u201cparent\u201d.  It restores <strong>energy<\/strong>.  Even a short break can fill your emotional tank, help you reconnect, laugh, recharge.  It strengthens your <strong>relationship<\/strong> time together, just for you two, reminds you of what you share beyond the caring role.  It improves your <strong>well-being<\/strong>, for both of you.  That bit of \u201cnormal life\u201d helps you show up better in your carer\/parent role too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yes \u2014 we came back refreshed, motivated, and glad we made the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you\u2019re reading this and you\u2019re thinking \u201cwe should take a break\u201d \u2014 do it. Even if you\u2019re deeply involved in caring, even if it feels \u201cimpossible right now\u201d \u2014 the benefits are real. Taking time for you <em>doesn\u2019t<\/em> mean you\u2019re neglecting your caring role. It means you\u2019re sustaining it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you ever get an invite or chance to attend the tes SEND Show (or something similar) \u2014 go.  Combine purpose with pleasure.  Learn, explore, and then let yourself off the hook to just <em>be<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s to next years weekend escape, Ian &amp; Beckie-style. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.09.39-AM.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1630\" width=\"671\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.09.39-AM.png 427w, https:\/\/www.awesomearchie.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Screenshot-2025-10-18-10.09.39-AM-224x300.png 224w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 671px) 100vw, 671px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ian and I have never made a secret of the fact that being parent carers is tough at times. Don&#8217;t get us wrong, we ADORE our children and know how lucky we are to have them, but it&#8217;s not easy. Firstly, the whole &#8220;18 summers&#8221; thing is not our reality. 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