What made me and 2 of my sons Autistic?!

There’s a lot of noise out there about what “causes” autism. You’ve probably seen headlines linking it to medicines, diet, or even parenting styles. Let’s clear this up right away: autism is not caused by taking paracetamol, eating the wrong snack, or any other tripe you may hear in the media right now. Autism “happens” because two people come together, pass on their genetics, and create a wonderfully unique new human being. It’s hereditary, woven into the beautiful blueprint of who you are. Even if you didnt realise that these genes are in your family….THEY ARE IN THERE SOMEWHERE!!!

Your brain doesn’t suddenly “become” autistic because of something you did or didn’t do. You are born the way you are meant to be — autistic brains are just wired uniquely. And that uniqueness is natural, valid, and SO worth celebrating.

Here’s the thing: autism is not a disease. It’s not an illness to be afraid of, or something that needs to be “cured.” It’s a neurotype — simply another way for a brain to experience and interact with the world. Some brains thrive on routine, some see patterns others miss, some dive deep into passions with incredible focus. These differences add such a richness and diversity to humanity.

So instead of worrying about what “caused” autism, let’s focus on what makes life better for autistic people: understanding, acceptance, and compassion. The real medicine isn’t found in a pill — it’s in creating environments where autistic people can be themselves, feel safe, and be celebrated for who they are.

Because at the end of the day, every autistic person is exactly as they were always meant to be: beautifully and uniquely made. 💙