How using the umbrella term of ” Neurodiverse” can change EVERYTHING πŸ§‘πŸ’œπŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™

If you have been following our journey for a while, you will be well aware that we talk about Neurodiversity ALOT! We find this term so useful when talking to families and schools. The term “Neurodiverse” is the idea that people experience and interact with the world around them in many different ways. There is no one ‘right’ way of thinking, learning and behaving, and differences are NOT viewed as deficits.

This is also helpful for us presently, in a time when the SEND system is at its most stretched. Children are struggling to get an ” official” diagnosis because of referral push backs, funding issues or trying to beat an ever growing NHS backlog. This where we can still talk to our kids about their own differences WITHOUT the need for a label.

Now, before I move on I want to stress that for us personally, getting official labels ( ASD, ADHD SPD etc ) has been extordinarly helpful. It has meant that we have been able to learn about Archie’s specific needs and meet him where he’s at. This means that team Awesome will ALWAYS recommend the official diagnosis route. However, we know that for so many, that is not currently achievable. This is when talking about Neurodiversity can open the door to a really great conversation with your loved ones.

Its important to share that everyone thinks, learns and processes information differently. Neurodiversity is all about recognising this, and understanding that people’s brains work differently to the next. For instance, if you are autistic or have ADHD, these differences can be more far more obvious. It’s a great idea to talk to your child about these differences and help them be more accepting and understanding of their own neurological differences.

So please, don’t feel like you need a label to address a really important issue with your child. Trust your gut and go for it πŸ™‚ As Awesome Archie says ” neurodiversity rules, be proud to be YOU!”

Awesome Archie’s Toy collection/ donation to the DCF and our interview with the legendary PDA Dad uk !

We must start this post with an enormous THANKYOU!!!

Back in October we launched an appeal for second hand toys to help support kids within our community and WOW, you delivered! Over the space of four weeks, we made multiple trips to various schools with donated SEN equipment, wet play games and toys . This week we dropped off our HUGE collection to the DCF. As you know, we are proud affiliates of the Dorset Children’s foundation . We are so proud and grateful that you all helped us to support them in the important work that they continue to do. THANKYOU!

Please know that although we have personally paused collections until Easter, the DCF will GLADLY accept any child related donations at their Treehouse store in Boscombe.

Our interview with PDA dad uk is LIVE!!!!

Well, what an experience that was. Honestly, Monday felt like such a fun day for both Archie and I.

We were privileged to be interviewed by Duncan, a well known content creator, amazing Dad and all round lovely guy ( PDA dad) . We were lucky enough to chat to him for a couple of hours.πŸ™ To be honest, in the end it felt like the kind of chat you’d have over a flat white 🀣 I will link the YouTube vid here for you to check out ⬇

Like a lot of parent carers, its rare that I get to talk to someone who just gets it! Duncan really does. We were able to discuss the SEND funding crisis, lack of adequate “in school ” training and Jimmy Carr?! Honestly πŸ™‚ πŸ€£πŸ‘

It was such a wonderful morning and a we must say thanks to Duncan for created such an epic interview. Both Archie and I both said that so far , that’s up there as an Awesome Archie career highlight and we have plonked it firmly into our positive memory bank πŸ™‚

Do check out…

https://www.facebook.com/PDADadUK/?locale=en_GB

Duncan’s knowledge on PDA is , to mind, unbeatable!

Following multiple messages I’ve received from parent/carers post interview, please find a link attached to the SEND code of practice here…

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/send-code-of-practice-0-to-25

KNOWLEDGE IS POWER πŸ™‚ Stay AWESOME !!! πŸ™‚

The Dorset Children’s Foundation Winter Wonderland Ball and “Enable my Trip”.

On Friday night, my husband and I were fortunate enough to attend the DCF’s winter wonderland charity ball. This amazing event was created to raise vital funds to continue the phenomenal work that the DCF do to support disabled children in Dorset.

The ball was held at the Marsham Court Hotel in Bournemouth and guests were treated to champagne on entry, a delicious three course meal and amazing service in a stunningly decorated room.

The ball was filled with charity fundraisers, supporting corporate companies and parent/carers who were all bidding on fantastic auction prizes and raffle tickets, all in aid of the DCF and “Enable my Trip”. It was also hosted by the BRILLIANTLY funny Adrienne Coles, host of Coastal Comedy. It was a really amazing night! We were even treated to some live singing by the fantastic Gemma Cardona.

The Dorset Children’s Foundation do so much to support the community. They offer families a wide range of events and activities from football to dancing, they have a dedicated mental health team and offer affordable counselling to parents and primary carers. They source and fundraise for wheelchairs, walkers, and other such disability aids as well as helping fundraise towards medical expenses not covered by Statutory Services.

Needless to say, all of this takes a huge amount of time and money. Thankyou DCF!

“Enable my Trip”, who partnered in the ball are an amazing team that help organise trips for holiday makers with disabled family members, ensuring that they have a safe and fully accessible holiday/trip. Please click on this link to visit their website and see their amazing work.

I am not permitted to share the cash total of the night however, I will say that the funds raised were well into the thousands and that EVERY PENNY of the amazing total raised will go directly to help disabled children in and around the local community. THANKYOU AND WELL DONE TO ALL…roll on next year πŸ™‚

To see the ball in action simply click on this link below πŸ™‚

Awesome Archie Non profit hits the tes SEND show London 2023.

Last weekend something extraordinarily rare happened. My husband and I had a weekend alone… WITH NO KIDS!!! 😍😍😍

I know that to most parents, this sound like a “so what?” moment, but for us as parent/carers, this NEVER happens. Finding someone willing and more importantly ABLE to care for all four of our kids, especially when giving of meds, adjusting routines etc., is tough. Thankyou to Sheila and Tracey for giving us this rare but AWESOME break.

We decided to use this time wisely and so headed up to the big smoke πŸŒ†.

Each year, the TES SEND show comes to the London Business and Design Centre.

This is an event that has been created for SEN professionals to gather together, make professional connections and learn. Compiled by the shows head of content, Beverley Walters, the CPD-certified seminar programme features an inspirational mix of seminars, providing an unrivalled opportunity to hear from acclaimed SEND experts.

This amazing show show attracts visitors from a wide range of roles across the public, not-for-profits (like us), and private sectors from early years, primary, secondary, FE, special schools, Pupil Referral Units, local authorities and more. IT’S AWESOME!

I learned SO much and came home with a library of new books, wonderful connections made and a head FULL of exciting and fresh support/teaching ideas.

Among the many phenomenal speakers, there was one that I must apologise too πŸ˜‰ PDADadUK. I was so excited to meet him in person that I literally screamed his own name in his face, not my finest moment 🀣Thankfully he was very kind and spoke to me about PDA (a subject in which I’m studying at the moment) and he has helped me no end.

So this blog post is dedicated to him. With enormous thanks!

The content he creates, the advice he gives, and the lived experience that he shares has taught me so much in the past and this week has taught me even more. I have been using his advise (particularly the traffic light system) to help me support in class and it’s been so effective. LINK TO HIS WORK HERE πŸ™‚

THANKYOU PDA DAD!

We at Awesome Archie recommend that all SENCOs and SLT visit the TES SEND show. The information shared has been unbelievably useful to me already and it’s only been a week since the event!

Please find a link to next years show deets here ➑ https://www.tessendshow.co.uk/

But fear not, it wasn’t all work and no play. We also had a whopping stroll around London, visited the sights, had a meal out and A FULL NIGHTS SLEEP!!! AWESOME!

Awesome Archie received a “Highly Commended” volunteer award from BBC Radio Solent “Make a Difference Awards”

Hello everyone and welcome to our latest website addition. Firstly, I need to apologise for the length of time it’s taken me to update you on all the latest happenings. I am delighted to say that we have been SO busy, that this is the first opportunity I’ve had to write in a little while!

This post is to say an enormous thanks to BBC Radio Solent. On the 26th September 2023, myself, my husband, Archie and Daisy were invited to the BBC Radio Solent’s ‘Make A Difference Award 2023’.

Without my knowledge, my amazing husband and the lovely Mr Sam Fuller (Head Teacher – Christchurch Junior School) nominated me for an award for the work that we do with Awesome Archie. When I received the phone-call in March to tell me that I had made it into the final four in our category, I couldn’t believe it! THANK YOU!

The awards ceremony has been created to thank members of the community who contribute, without expecting anything in return. For us, this was enormous.

Sadly, we didn’t win the biggy in our category, that honour went to a lovely young lady called Billie, for her contribution to the environment, but we were blessed to receive a ‘Highly Commended’ award for our efforts with Awesome Archie.

The event itself was beautifully hosted by Alun Newman, amazingly produced by Rebecca Parker and attended by truly wonderful people.

We promise that we will use this incredible honour as a platform to keep us powering forward. For as long as we are able, we will talk about neurodiversity, autism, ADHD, acceptance and inclusion… it’s the least our children deserve.

BBC Radio Solent, thank you for giving us the most wonderful day and the most phenomenal memories.

How fragrance can be used to calm, engage, or ease anxiety in children with ADHD :)

We all know that Aromatherapy is a holistic healing treatment that has been used for centuries, that uses natural plant extracts to promote health and well-being. Aromatherapy uses aromatic essential oils medicinally to improve the health of the body, mind, and spirit. Studies suggest that it enhances both physical and emotional health.

Aromatherapy is thought of as both an art and a science and more recently has gained more recognition in the fields of science and medicine.

This is why ( 5 years ago) I started to study the connections between fragrance and their calming benefits. To be completely truthful, it came from a place of utter desperation. At that time, Archie was full of anxiety and we had no idea where to turn. The NHS waiting list for mental health support was weeks away and we were fearful for his well being.

My research lead me to discover that there are a number of fragrances that parents and carers found beneficial and for us, it was a gamechanger! Since that day, we have had either a wax warmer or diffuser both upstairs and down ( one placed as close to Archie’s room as possible ) and we have not looked back.

For your quick refence, here is a list of scents that are believed to support a child with ADHD although remember, EVERY child is different and it has to be a bit of a trial and error situation to find the scent that works for you πŸ™‚

Vetiver

Vetiver oil comes from a plant native to India called vetiver. It’s said to have a calming effect and may even help stimulate circulation and relieve symptoms of stress and anxiety.

Lavender

Lavender has been used for hundreds of years to reduce anxiety. 

The aroma of lavender can reduce anxiety and help calm people in stressful situations, which may help with ADHD symptoms.

Orange – One of our most successful πŸ™‚

Orange oil is derived from the rinds of the sweet orange.

Studies suggest that orange essential oil could reduce anxiety and create calm in individuals in a stressful environment. We have found this to be true for one of our boys πŸ™‚

Chamomile and ylang ylang

 Chamomile oil comes from the flowers of the chamomile plant, while ylang ylang oil is derived from the flowers of the tropical Cananga tree.

The stress, anxiety, and depression felt by some with ADHD may be helped by Ylang Ylang and chamomile oils. Both of these essential oils may also have the ability to calm, reduce anxiety, and possibly even help with some forms of depression.

Sandalwood- Archie’s favourite and in daily use in our home.

Sandalwood oil comes from the wood and roots of Santalum album, which is also known as the East Indian sandalwood tree. And finally…

Peppermint

Peppermint oil comes from the flowering part as well as the leaves of the peppermint plant.

It’s believed to have a soothing effect. It can help relax and calm the restlessness.

For us personally, Sandlewood ( deep earthy scent ),any citrus scents and any mint based fragrances have positive effects of our children.

I hope this has been useful to you as we start back for another school year.

If you are interested in purchasing any warmers to have a go yourself, here is a link to my Scentsy store and I am always happy to help and advise x

https://happyclappy.scentsy.co.uk/?fbclid=IwAR1N5OGtVaKWDwWEHuUN-I97uqdfeDhVybOXjiEJ4AJtg7A4_1hl8nC4BnY

Awesome Archie on tour 2023 and pulling a 737!

Well, what a wonderful summer it has been for team Awesome πŸ™‚ As you may have noticed, I have been slowing down the work pace to concentrate enjoying precious family time over this summer break however, we have still been busy πŸ™‚

Firstly, I hope that you have all had a wonderful summer, in whatever form it’s taken. As parent carers there is no ” rest time” but, I sincerely hope that you feel positive and even just a little refreshed .

We were lucky enough to travel to Norway , this time on the Disney Dream. You will probably know that as a family we ADORE Disney cruiselines. They are inclusive, fully adapted to meet any disability or neurological difference and we haven’t had a bad experience yet πŸ™‚ Still, we don’t take for grated how fortunate we are to have a holiday such as this and so use it to continue spreading our message of Autism advocacy and acceptance.

This year we were lucky enough to visit Nordfjordied, Mekjarvik, Rotterdam and Skoldjen and at each port we spoke to locals about Archie and his Autism. We also met a lot of fellow parent carers on board that we are now proud to have made a connection with, some all the way from Florida πŸ™‚

Over the next few weeks I will be creating YouTube videos on our recent adventure, cabin tours, food guides etc but for now , here are some pics of us doing our thing….”on tour” πŸ™‚

Pulling a 737 for the Dorset Children’s foundation.

As soon as we arrived home it was business as usual, although not as usual as we’d planned . 🀣Myself and my oldest son were invited to pull at 737 to help raise money for the DCF. We of course JUMPED at the chance, I mean….how cool is that?!?!

On bank holiday Monday we arrived at Bournemouth airport dressed in bright colours, went through all the safety stuff and then did it… WE ACTUALLY PULLED A PLANE FOR 50 METERS!!!!!! Super cool πŸ™‚ Thankyou to all of our sponsors ( so far we have raised almost Β£200) and to the DCF for their continued support in the work that Arch and I are proud to do πŸ™‚ Also , massive thanks to Jason Shrubb for these epic pics πŸ™‚

THATS A WRAP – academic year 2022- 2023

WOW…WE DID IT!!!!

Finally our summer holidays has officially started. To be fair, we have started a day early because two of our four are full of cold, but I’m still celebrating!

This academic year has taken us on such an adventure and we are so thankful for all of your support. One of the reasons we decided to launch Awesome Archie non profit 3 years ago, was because for so many years I felt isolated, lonely and the pressures of being a life long parent carer were to massive for me to comprehend. My own ADHD means that I self doubt and analyse everything I say and do and live in a permanent state of ” I must do better!” ( just to reassure you , this is common in girls with ADHD so I’m used to it!) . I knew that I couldn’t be the only one feeling like this, so we as a family decided to create a safe and welcoming community for people just like me and Arch and support families just like our own πŸ™‚ Through meeting amazing parents, working with lovely schools and the support of the DCF and Autism Unlimited I can honestly say that I no longer feel alone or frightened for the future. I feel part of the coolest club in the world…. the neurodiverse communityπŸ‘ For this I must say a HUGE THANKYOU!

We want to reassure you that although our ” boots on the ground” support has ended for the summer , YOU ARE NOT ALONE! I will be online on ALL of our socials throughout the holiday and our website and email will not be shutting down at any point. The kids and I will continue to share our “Autism adventures” and you are ALL welcome to join us virtually so you can feel part of the fabulously bonkers world of Neurodiversity living…. the good and the not so good πŸ™‚

Lastly, I want to take a moment to publicly thank my family. My Husband ( the kids Dad) goes above and beyond to support us all. He is relentlessly hard working, endlessly supportive and picks up the pieces that I drop when I’m not doing so well. He is always stood behind us, pushing us all forward without fuss or expectation! I don’t often do romantic gestures but here we go…buckets at the ready… I LOVE YOU DUDE! Thanks for being our hero and my bestest mate in the whole wide world.😍 You make what we do and all we have, possible. And to all of our amazing children, we still cant believe you are ours. Thankyou for the chaos, noise, fun, laughter and even the tears. YOU ARE OUR EVERYTHING.

Have a wonderful summer all

Beckie and team Awesome πŸ™‚

Awesome Archie Arts week, BIG interview and TicToc success!

What a brilliant week it has been.

We started off with a big interview with Radio Solent’s content creator . Archie and I have been lucky enough to make it into the finals of Radio Solent’s ” Make a difference awards 2023.” This has meant that we will be fortunate enough to feature on the radio and online so we were interviewed. Archie was SOOOO nervous but George ( the lovely guy who came to interview us) was just so kind and patient, it didn’t take Archie long to get into the swing of things. I was immensely proud of him and how he shared what living with his condition is like, good and bad.

The interview will be released in August and the Awards ceremony is in September. THANKYOU to all who nominated us, just life changing and a HUGE thanks to the legend Harry Redknapp for his message of support. It made me cry πŸ™‚

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cub2DZNtuWU/

ARTS WEEK AT WG.

This week I have been in school pretty much full time. You may or may not know that aside from my love of Neurodiversity I am also a passionate artist. Last year I achieved a distinction in an Art history Diploma and so decided to use this to help local kids. With my own children’s help, we created a fun Arts week where we travelled through time learning and creating. The kids at WG were so wonderful and the Art that they have produced is simply stunning.

Needless to say, I am totally exhausted now but full of joy and gratitude.

And finally, WE ARE ON TICTOC!!!

That is something that I never thought I’d say but it has been amazing. WE WENT VIRAL and one of our clips had now got 16.7k views. So may people are now using these apps to get hints and tips on how to support families with ASD, ADHD etc so I am privileged to be able to join this trendy bunch. Links to all of our socials can be found here.

www.awesomearchie.co.uk then head to socials page πŸ™‚

Awesome Archie’s first pop-up charity shop, and Dorset’s “healthy body, healthy mind” inclusive sport event.

Hello and welcome to this weeks blog, lots to get through so let’s get going! Firstly, I want to say a huge thank you to the parents/carers of the pupils of the Priory school in Christchurch. On Friday, we were able to host our first ever “pop-up charity shop”. We were warmly welcomed by the Friends of Priory school (registered charity) to not only sell children’s items that were generously donated by Priory parents, but to spread our message of autism inclusion and celebration of neurological differences.

We need to say a massive thanks to David and Martyn from Reformed Plastics, for loaning us their enormous trailer that enabled us to move the hundreds of donated items, marquees, marketing tools, signs and tables. We could not have done this without your support, and so we are immensely grateful.

We managed to raise Β£220, and when you consider that most items were selling for Β£1 or 50p, we were really delighted with that number. Minus expenses, this means that Awesome Archie non-profit are proud to donate Β£81.80 to the FPS. All remaining unsold items are going straight down to the Dorset Children’s Foundation treehouse for them to support the many children under their care. Although Awesome Archie has been a little under the weather, he was with us in spirit, and was cheering us on from the sofa.

Dan and Gavin’s “healthy body, healthy mind” inclusive sporting event.

Saturday morning was a fantastic start to our weekend. You may or may not realise that Archie and I have been lucky enough to work with Dan Moody (Dorset School Games) for a little while now. I have mentioned before that the reason I admire Dan is that his passion for sport isn’t based on winning, he’s a true champion for the tryer. He and Gavin have worked tirelessly to create an inclusive sports day targeting those children who, for whatever reason may find standard sporting events overwhelming. We at Awesome Archie were asked to come along and host a tent in the mental health support section of this brilliant day, based at the Grange School in Christchurch. We were supported by MyTime Carers and Place2Be and we brought along a “chill out tent” for when kids felt overwhelmed. We spoke to lots of wonderful families and made some brilliant connections πŸ™‚

The event was absolutely buzzing with excitement and there were opportunities for children to try… soft archery, dancing, tennis, netball, botcha, indoor curling, taekwondo and lots more).

It was phenomenal to be with so many charities, NHS support workers, and community interest companies that all have the same goal in mind… the health and happiness of children.

The event appeared to be a fantastic success, and we are all hoping that it will become a termly date in the diary and spread county-wide. Thank you for the privilege of allowing us to take part, and we can’t wait for the next one.


https://www.reformedplastics.co.uk

https://www.activedorset.org/school-games

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